Something else to consider Jeff, is that you may have latent tendencies towards being dominated by a woman. Do you get excited when you spar with them? Sorry...I just couldn't resist! I've had a number of very attractive women in my class in the past (Jenni...*sigh*), but I've never felt they were MORE attractive than any other woman I found attractive. The confidence factor is definitely a plus..I'll easily agree with that. Usually the fact they are more physically "in shape" than the average woman on the street also helps, as I'm a proud, card carrying member of the Shallow Men's Society of America. haha its cuz its kinky knowing that a girl could kick your * (come on i think its kinky)